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Care · Ritual · Intention

The Care & Ritual Guide

How to wash, store, and wear your Myrah Penaloza piece.

Every piece that arrives at your door was made slowly, by real hands, in someone's home in Bali. The woman who stitched it was paid to take her time. The fabric was chosen because it will last longer than the trend. The dye — if it is botanical — came from something that grew in the earth.

What you do with it now is part of the same story.

This guide is not a list of rules. It is an invitation. A piece of slow fashion cared for slowly becomes something different over time — softer, more present, more yours. Treat it as you would anything that arrived with intention.

“A garment cared for with attention becomes an heirloom. One washed in a hurry becomes a memory of something you used to have.”

At a Glance

The full guide is below. But if you are standing at your washing machine right now, these are the things that matter most.

❄️ Cold water
always
🤲 Gentle cycle
or hand wash
☀️ Hang or lay
flat to dry
🚫 Never the
tumble dryer
🌿 Natural detergent
only

Linen — The Foundation Fabric

Linen is alive. It wrinkles because it is real. It softens with every wash, every wear, every fold. A linen piece that has been lived in for two years is more beautiful than the day it arrived — not in spite of its history, but because of it.

Linen Care

Washing Cold water, gentle or delicate cycle. Hand wash is even better.
Detergent Gentle, natural detergent. Fragrance-free preferred — linen absorbs scent deeply. No bleach, ever.
Drying Hang to dry in the shade or lay flat. Avoid direct harsh sunlight for extended periods — it will fade botanical dyes.
Ironing Iron while slightly damp, on medium heat, on the reverse side. Or don't iron. The wrinkles are part of the honesty of the fabric.
Tumble drying No. The heat will shrink and weaken the fibres. Hang dry, always.
Frequency Linen does not need to be washed after every wear. Hang your piece to air between wears — the fabric will thank you for it.
A note on wrinkling

Natural linen wrinkles. This is not a defect. It is the evidence that the fabric was not treated with synthetic finishing chemicals to perform otherwise. If the wrinkles feel like too much, iron on medium while slightly damp. If they feel right, leave them. Both are correct.

Botanical Dye & Rainbeau — The Living Colors

Our botanical-dyed pieces — and particularly Rainbeau, our signature colorway — are dyed by hand using turmeric, indigo, and native Balinese botanicals. No two batches repeat exactly. The color in your piece has never existed before and will never exist again in quite this way.

That also means the color needs a little more care.

Botanical Dye Care

First wash Wash alone or with similar tones the first time. Some light color release is normal and expected — this is the dye settling, not the color disappearing.
Temperature Cold water only. Heat accelerates color change in botanical dyes.
Sunlight Dry in shade. Extended direct sunlight will soften the colors over time — which can be beautiful, but should be your choice, not an accident.
Evolution Botanical colors deepen and evolve with wear and washing. This is not fading — it is the dye becoming more itself. Your piece will be different in a year, and it will be more beautiful.
Detergent Fragrance-free, gentle, plant-based detergent. Harsh chemicals will strip the dye faster than time will.
“Rainbeau is the colour of the sky the morning after everything broke open. It was not designed. It was allowed.”

Silk — The Quiet One

Silk asks the most of you, and gives the most back. A well-cared-for silk piece grows more luminous with age. A neglected one loses its lustre faster than any other fabric. Give it fifteen minutes of attention and it will be with you for decades.

Silk Care

Washing Hand wash in cold water, or machine on the most delicate cycle in a mesh laundry bag. Never wring or twist.
Detergent Silk-specific or ultra-gentle detergent. A small amount of white vinegar in the rinse water helps preserve the sheen.
Drying Press gently in a clean towel to remove water — never wring. Lay flat to dry, away from direct light and heat.
Ironing Iron on the lowest heat setting, on the reverse side, while still slightly damp. A pressing cloth between iron and fabric is ideal.
Storage Fold loosely in breathable cotton or a clean pillowcase. Avoid plastic — silk needs air.

Organic Cotton & Tumanggal — The Woven Ones

Our organic cotton and Tumanggal hand-woven cotton pieces carry a different kind of story — Tumanggal is woven in traditional Javanese villages using a process that is thousands of years old. These are the most textural pieces in the collection, and the most forgiving to care for.

Cotton & Tumanggal Care

Washing Cold water, gentle cycle. Cotton is the most resilient of our fabrics and can handle a little more than linen or silk.
Drying Hang or lay flat to dry. Tumanggal hand-woven cotton should not be tumble-dried — the hand-weaving process creates a texture that benefits from air-drying.
Ironing Medium heat, damp cloth. Tumanggal pieces have intentional texture — over-ironing will flatten something meant to live in relief.
Softening Cotton softens beautifully over time. The Tumanggal weave in particular becomes more supple after each wash — give it time.
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The Morning Ritual — How to Wear a Piece With Intention

This might feel unnecessary to say. But we believe dressing is a ceremony, and a ceremony done in a rush is a ceremony left half-finished.

The following is not a prescription. It is an invitation to slow down, just for the three minutes it takes to put on something made with this much care.

I

Hold it before you put it on

Not for long. A breath. Notice the weight of the linen, or the coolness of the silk. This is what it means to be present with something real. Someone made this. Their intention is still in it.

II

Put it on without a mirror

Feel it settle on your body before you see how it looks. The piece will find you before you start adjusting it to what you think it should look like. This order matters.

III

Let it wrinkle

Natural fabrics move with you through a day. They will not look at 6pm the way they looked at 8am. That is not a flaw in the fabric. That is the fabric being honest about the life it was worn through.

IV

Know that it is improving

Every wear softens the linen. Every wash deepens the botanical dye into itself. The piece you have in six months is not a worn-out version of the piece you bought. It is a more fully realised one.

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Storing Your Pieces

Natural fabrics need to breathe. The biggest enemy of linen, silk, and botanical-dyed textiles is not wear — it is being sealed away from air for too long.

Storage Guidelines

Linen Fold loosely and store in a breathable drawer or on an open shelf. Linen can be hung for short periods but will lose its shape if hung too long — especially at the shoulders.
Silk Fold and store in a breathable cotton bag or clean pillowcase. Never plastic. Keep away from light — even indirect light will soften silk colors over time.
Botanical dye Store away from prolonged light exposure. The colors are alive and will respond to their environment. Darkness preserves; light transforms.
General Store clean, not dirty. Natural fabrics that sit unwashed attract moths and mineral deposits from body oils. Wash before storing for any extended period.
Travel Roll linen for travel rather than fold — it creates fewer hard creases. Hang as soon as you arrive and let the fabric relax. Linen releases most wrinkles naturally with time and light steam.

The Thirty-Wear Test — and Why It Matters

Every piece at Myrah Penaloza is designed to pass a thirty-wear test before it leaves the design process. Some of our signature pieces — the Virgo Moon Kaftan, the Kundalini Playsuit — are made to be worn 108 times or more. These are not seasonal garments. They are not things to be owned and replaced.

If you care for them the way this guide describes, they will last longer than the trend that no longer exists, longer than the company that made the piece that replaced them, long enough to become something you consider giving to someone you love.

The heirloom question

Before you consider parting with a piece, ask: has it been cared for correctly? More often than not, a piece that feels tired simply needs to be washed gently, dried flat, and allowed to come back to itself. Linen, in particular, has an extraordinary capacity to recover when treated as the living fabric it is.

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Repairs & Small Imperfections

A loose thread. A small seam that needs attention after years of wear. These are not reasons to part with a piece. They are an invitation to extend the relationship.

If you find a fault that you believe is from the making, not the wearing, contact us at support@myrahpenaloza.com. We stand behind what we make, and we want to know.

If you find something after years of wear that simply needs a skilled hand, we will always be glad to advise on repair options. A skilled seamstress can extend the life of a natural fabric garment by decades. That is not a last resort — it is part of the practice of slow fashion.

“The piece you were made for is already in your wardrobe. What you do with it from here is ceremony.”

Myrah Penaloza · Bali

With love from Bali,
Myrah

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