I'm choosing delulu over logic (here's why)

Happy Saturday! I wanted to share an inspiring read today to get you going, especially after what’s been feeling quite intense with the new moon and Mercury retrograde recently.

What I’ve come to is this: it’s okay to not take life so seriously. It’s okay to bring a little “delulu” (delusional optimism) to the table.

Logic hasn’t gotten me anywhere magical. In fact, every time I’ve believed something miraculous was about to happen—no matter how unrealistic,  it actually did!!

 Here’s the truth most people miss:

You don’t get what you want by focusing on what’s missing or by being “realistic.” You get what you want by tuning into the reality you desire, even if it feels invisible right now.

Your nervous system doesn’t care about logic—it cares about what you focus on.

If you keep looking at your bank account, your business numbers, or your relationship status and telling yourself “this is just reality,” you’re feeding energy into the very thing you want to change.

But when you start to ignore the so-called “facts” and put your attention on the possibility of something better, you open the door for miracles.

Here’s how to ignore reality and get anything you want:

1. Stop feeding the gap.
Notice when you’re obsessing over what’s missing. Instead, ask: “What would it feel like if my dream was already here?” Let yourself feel that, even for a moment.

2. Create from the fourth dimension.
There’s the reality you can see (3D), and then there’s the energetic reality (4D) where all possibilities exist. Your job is to focus on the energetic version of what you want, not the absence of it.

3. Practice “delulu” on purpose.
Let yourself believe in the miraculous. Let yourself expect the best, even if you have no evidence. Your nervous system will start to align with that new reality.

4. Take inspired action.
When you feel a nudge—send the email, make the call, say yes to the opportunity. Don’t wait for proof. Move as if your new reality is already unfolding.

5. Be gentle with yourself.
If you slip back into old patterns, that’s okay. Awareness is the first step. Just bring your focus back to what you want to create.

The most powerful shifts in my life have come when I stopped arguing for my limitations and started believing in the impossible.

So if you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like your dreams are too far away, try ignoring “reality” for a little while. Tune into the version of you who already has what she wants. Let yourself feel the joy, the abundance, the love—even if it’s just in your imagination.

Your nervous system will thank you. And your reality will start to shift. 

All my love,

Myrah & Robindra